How to get what you want from a relationship
Relationships are a place where we go to give, magnify every experience, grow, and heal ourselves.
When I meet anyone, remember it is a holy encounter.
As I see him I will see myself.
As I treat him I will treat myself.
As I think of him I will think of myself.
Never forget this, for in him I will find myself or lose myself.
Do unto others as you would have done unto you because you are the others.
Who I am. What I teach myself, I teach others also.
What would I have my teaching be today?
Be what I want!
I will never become happy- I can only be happy. I can be what I want.
If I would want love, be loving.
If I would want care, be caring.
I can be what I want.
If I would want joy, be joyful.
If I would want peace, be peaceful.
I can be what I want.
If I would want happiness, be happy
If I would want kindness, be kind.
I can be what I want.
If I would want forgiveness, be forgiving.
If I would want acceptance, be accepting.
I can be what I want.
There is a world of difference searching for happiness and choosing to be happy.
Being is the key to happiness. No amount of doing and having can compensate for being because it is real.
Give what I want!
Giving is a gain, not a loss. Give generously.
Often what I want to hear from others is what I am currently not saying to myself.
Whatever you compliment in another person I am strengthening in myself also.
Often what I am not getting maybe what I am withholding.
The moment I withdraw love from any one person, I withdraw myself also from the experience of love.
Today is my gift to the world.
Give what appears to be missing.
Give what I appear not to be getting.
Give what I think I have been searching for.
Give what I believe I have been waiting for.
Give generously, without though of loss or sacrifice.
Give openly, that I may receive what I want.
Give freely, that I may find what I am after.
Give fully, that my waiting may be over.
Above all, give what I want.
How to figure out what you want in a relationships
It’s really difficult to know exactly what you want out of a relationship, particularly if you’re young or inexperienced. Even if you’ve dated several other individuals, each relationship is special, and now you may have different goals than you’ve had in the past. It can be a laborious process on how to get what you want in a relationship, but it is worth it.
Think about any problems in the relationships around you that you have found:
- Others’ experiences impact you, too. You have definitely spent time with friends or family members who have been in intimate relationships. Since you were on the outside, you might have been aware of the difficulties faced by these people.
- Take note of any such red flags from others’ relationships that you don’t want to have happen in yours. Learning from the mistakes of others may help you to enjoy a more satisfying relationship in the future.
Interact with your partner:
- Share common beliefs, ambitions, interests, and outlooks on life, if you come to realize that you and your partner are very compatible, then it might be time to have a candid talk about where you stand. If you feel confident that this person represents everything you want in a relationship, you need to make sure that he or she thinks the same.
- Be honest about your emotions. If your partner is not interested in a long-term relationship then, it’s best to know that early on. Don’t make the mistake of believing that you should change one way or another to change your mind.
Note, the list is yours! Clear your mind and know what this journey is going to teach you. Don’t judge yourself,
just keep yourself honest. Perhaps you’ve only got 3 things on your list. You don’t have to write anything that goes with them unless you want to write.
Happiness Now!: Timeless Wisdom for Feeling Good FAST
***A story about an act of kindness: This book was shipped to me by a stranger that I found online offering the book for free. Even though, I offered to pay for the shipping; the person sent it without any remuneration or recognition. It was unbelievable and revived my faith in humanity. Thank you, stranger and I shall pay your kindness forward many folds. Peace, love, light, and hugs***
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